| Why do people who seem to be in a perfectly happy | | | | relationship, it may not necessarily mean that your |
| relationship cheat on their partner? How could they | | | | partner doesn't love you or that they love another. If |
| even consider loving another when they already have | | | | you focus on having an open and trusting relationship |
| it so good? While it may seem easy to simply call | | | | where there's no fear and no judgment, it's very |
| them an idiot and immoral, there's more to it than | | | | unlikely that your partner will cheat. Of course you |
| that. | | | | both have to agree to this path. Trusting your |
| Cheating is the symptom, not the cause... | | | | partner completely and sharing everything while they |
| Relationships today are based on ownership and | | | | don't reciprocate is simply foolish. |
| possession - partners feeling like they own their | | | | My recommendation for ending cheating in a |
| spouses and try to control their every move. | | | | relationship is to talk openly and honestly to one |
| What if we all came from a place of unconditional | | | | another without anger, fear, or judgment. When a |
| love and acceptance? | | | | person cheats, they are typically looking for |
| What if we stopped confusing sex for love - they | | | | something that they feel is missing is their relationship |
| are not the same thing. You can have sex with | | | | with their partner. |
| someone that you do not love and you can love | | | | If you can truly talk to each other about everything - |
| someone that you do not have sex with. Wouldn't | | | | including the fact that your partner is sexually |
| you agree? | | | | attracted to another person, then you have |
| So if that's true, what is cheating? | | | | complete trust in your relationship and the need for |
| It's a breaking of trust. While trust is vital to a happy | | | | cheating disappears. |