Reasons Russian Women Seek Western Men

Russian women like Russian men. If they could, theyolder generation of Russians has table manners that
would prefer to marry a Russian man. Of course, aAmericans are not used to. During the Communist
Russian woman is looking for a good husband, andyears, manners were considered bourgeois and they
many Russian men often do not make goodfell out of favor.
husbands.Because of the death of so many men in the Stalinist
Russian society is very chauvinistic. Women usually dopurges and World War II, many Russian men were
the housework and take care of the children.raised without a father. Many of them do not know
Because of economics, they usually have a job ashow to function as a father and are minimally
well.involved with raising their children.
From a cultural standpoint, drinking is sociallyMany Russian women believe that they will have
acceptable and many Russian men drink to excess,more economic opportunity for themselves and for
which can also affect their health. Many Russian mentheir children in Western countries than in Russia.
are like the old cartoon character of Andy Capp.All the women in the world are looking for economic
Some are lazy, alcoholic bums who let their wives dosecurity. Why should Russian women be any
all the housework, plus bring home a paycheck, whiledifferent?
they go out with their friends and drink and chaseAmerica is a nation of immigrants. Virtually all of the
women. If their wives object, they give them apeople who have immigrated to America were
swat, and if they object too much, they leave.looking for a better life. They operated out of what
Because of all the single and available women, RussianAdam Smith called 'enlightened self-interest.' Russian
men are spoiled. Many women feel lucky to have awomen are no different.
husband even if he is like the type just described.This has been the reality of immigration to America
After the age of thirty-five, it is virtually impossiblefrom the very beginning. The Spanish traveled to the
for a Russian woman to find a husband. If they areNew World to find 'the fountain of youth.' The English
divorced and have children, the same situation applies.followed them to the New World to find the 'streets
Many Russian women believe that Westerners makepaved with gold.'
better husbands. Right or wrong, they believe thatThe Irish left the Potato Famine behind for the
Westerners are more liberated than Russian men andchance of a new opportunity in America only to
will pitch in with more of the household tasks.experience the Coffin Ships, cholera outbreaks, and
Many Russian women are attracted to American mensigns stating 'Irish need not apply.'
because they are better groomed and wear cleanerPrejudice against immigrants, including Russian
clothes than Russian men. American men are morewomen, is nothing new. They just happen to be the
polite and genteel than Russian men. Many Russiansnewest group of immigrants that are viewed with
appear impolite to Americans.prejudice.
They don't say please or thank you very often. The